Unresolved mystery of my Life,
Its all started due to Me n My love towards a girl
I liked a girl so I made few common friends to approach her,
some how I got introduced to her, and
soon from my acts and kindness towards her she realized it, but didn’t complain
about it. I bought one gift for her, but she didn’t took it saying there is
nothing started between us, so friend of us told her then start it or end it,
she kept quite..
Few days passed by and we started exchanging messages over
phone, but at times very upsetting reply I used to get, so I understood its all
her moody nature, so I kept it little slow. I sent her flowers on valentine and
she was like oh such a nice gift thanks and all and decided to meet, but as usual
final moment it was canceled, so I again
let it go, but I knew by now she likes it the way its going on, one day over an
argument we had a fight and her Brother called up, we too had a fight over a
phone, next day again her uncle called up we again had a fight over phone call,
later her brother called up and said sorry for whatever happened but don’t talk
to her or message her as she is upset. I gave up that time coz now its clear
cut no…
A year later we again started chatting over social network
site called Orkut, but I never gave my cell no to her, either I didn’t asked
her number coz I was uncertain about her. Then one day I found her stats
changed to committed and then due to ongoing issues I told one of common friend
to call her and get her number, he
called her at her home number which I gave him, she was out so message was left
for her to call back. Next day she called him, but in the evening this guy told
me that ohh I got a call from her but due to busy schedule I didn’t save the
number, next time I will give it to you, I said okay.. then next weeks that
same common friends Birthday was there so he said I will Invite her, so his
girlfriend will talk to her and asked me not to come there so she will speak
freely but she didn’t turned up.
Now it
was almost two months from we started talking so I just took the Initiative and
commented on her Orkut “Congratulations, Who is the Lucky Guy”… and can you
Imagine what Happened next >>> just think on........................ lets see how and what you
expect….......................... it should be a Thanks saying message from her isn’t it ?? yeah for
ordinary girls it should be… however it was>
“I was Kicked Out of Her Account” lol :-P
yes, even I was shocked and speechless, had no direct Number to call
her as our common friend never gave me her number. Any which ways I then
decided to move on and I said yes to some other Girl, which didn’t work out
later, mean while after 15 days I got Friend Request again from her… I did
accepted it what to do after all it was my weaken heart issue… but I didn’t said any thing I noticed some
ones name added in her Bedroom so I gave up completely…
Then one very first day of a new year I received a message wishing
new year… and at the end of the message her name was written, I thought some one
trying to bull with me so I ignored, 2nd day I again received a call
from the same number I didn’t answer it, as It was never going to work out, she
being committed to some one else. Three days later our common friend told me
she was trying to contact you but you didn’t answer, so she called me(him), they had a
talk, and she said she is not happy with the marriage which is held soon. So talk
to her, I said let her call I will speak and then after a month on My Birthday
she was Invited by me to clear all the dough and queries, she said she will come
but on my Birthday she didn’t answer any calls of mine, but co-ordinate with her
friend and finally came, after few time I and my other friend we went to play
some thing, while this guy & his gf and one other friend of mine were sitting with
her and they made her speak… she said this guy is not at all a match to her,
but since a family friend she knows him, and he proposed so she said no to Him, then he approached his and her father, who are good friends so her father
insist on her to check out the guy, be with him for a time so finally she said
yes as her father wanted this to happen, then friend of mine asked her so you
now like this guy and love him… she replied what the hell, I will never love
him just getting married, as I am not talking to her and she has no any options.
This is what updated to me later, so after a while I proposed her saying if you
want I will talk to your father and she was like oh but I am getting engage
just 6 days later from today, so I said ohh then its okay, carry on there is no
point talking, so she was like, its actually not an engagement its just his
parents are coming to her house and the guy is outstation… lol, after we all
laugh on this, she said this is what!! this guy has no any interest in it, and
telling me this is engagement, I said we will talk on this day after only we
two no one else, she said ok done, and I dropped her home and went home with
lots many questions on my mind, but next day all two girls and guys told
me that you should move on, as she is unhappy so call her an meet her she wants things to push on from here. So I
fixed an appointment with her.
Again the same issue, entire day she didn’t picked my calls
and in the evening she co-ordinated with that same friend of her who told me
that she is coming and go and meet her at this place, with her one of her
friend is there, I said okay, we talked a lot and I realized that the friend
who came along with her is useless as he was there only to oppose us as he must
be friend to her fiancé too, as she said she knows its just a habit of 15 days
so I said yes to this marriage, I never loved him and will not love him ever. And
this guy was but what to do, marriages are fixed in haven so we finally departed with a lie from
me saying that due to her Brother and Uncle what message they convey to me I
tried to kill myself and she was like oh my god, why you took it serious they
were not my relative, they were just friends… so I was very upset and told her
what ever you did was not grate as it has cost me my life, and I left from
there.
Later night she said sorry for her friends and told me no I don’t
know what to do, I told her to get your parents and I will speak to them, but
no one outside and she was like no reply. But next day after two years she was
there at my hangout place and with the same friend of her, entire 4 hours she
never called me but trying to call our common friend, to whom I told strictly
not to answer the calls and he didn’t, next day he met me and told me that she
was really upset with you as you didn’t go and spoke to her, she came for you
as you called her, and even her parents came but you ran away, so I called her
as I was around there and she was with her Friend not parents.
Later I did many things to trouble her and walk to Police
stn coz I wanted to hold all her friends who became her uncle, brothers n etc..
but she didn’t go to that extent coz she knew its her problem that she couldn’t
speak out in front of her parents. She went all the places to find my residential
address to clear their view and run away from her responsibility, but she didn’t
go to any of our common friend, I wanted to see if she Hate me to the core or not, before
she gets married with this guy it was needed, else she would have end up breaking up or
divorce this is what every one knows her told me, and conclude from her behavior even one of my best clinical psychologist said to me, its a critical case if possible don't marry this girl ever if you want I will speak to her and let her know what she is doing is not good, but for that we might have to take help from all of the three family by talking to them to understand this issue. which i said let it go as now am not interested too.
Finally one day she came home with her mother and her friend, just to avoid any further issues to me and her, she simply kept saying she didn’t come for me on my birthday, she came to see
and meet that other friend, to whom she could have meet any other day, in fact she
was Invited to his Birthday too, but she never did it.
Few Questions she can never answer, I didn’t asked her in
front of her friend, as whatever happens he is third person and not from the
family
1)
What was so important to meet that common friend
on my Birthday party, on my booked table?
2)
Why she always kept saying that she came to meet
him not me? & next day after that same common
friend was not there, so to whom she came to meet at, her other friend who came with her only, hahahaha ?
3)
When I said “congratulation, who is the lucky guy”
what was so wrong in it, that you kicked me off your account?
4)
After you kicked me off why did you again sent
me add request for what ? (Infact I asked it to you in front of your mother and
you were speechless crying mode)
5)
Who gave you my new contact number, as I never
gave you that?
6)
The guy you said is your (brother) actually a
friend, does he gives his salary to your parents if not then how can you involve such a jerk in
your life’s decisions ?
7)
I gave you a solid proof against me so that you
could have taken legal actions, but that time too you used your fiancé Email Id
and replied with what I have expected, what if I would have taken actions
against him ? his whole carrier would have ended there itself.
8)
What if I open my mouth and say which I never
said before about your intention doing all this?
9)
Why you removed your fiancé name from your bed
room after meeting me at my Birthday?
Many questions I could have asked you, but I never wanted a defeated
girl in you, I always wanted to see you winning remember, which no one else can
do for you ever……….
finally I remember of a song
||Baat Nikaalegi tho door talak Jayegi..||
||Log Bevajha udasi ka sabab puchengye||
||Ye bhi poochenge k tum itni pareshan kyoun ho||
But I thank God for letting me get this experience, as I came
to now the Friends around me… your friend to whom I considered a friend was a
no. one liar, he had your number very next day I asked him to find your cell no. but he stored it with different name and didn't gave me,
accidently I came to know this later, when I asked him why he did this till today
he didn’t answer it and he will never answer it and now m least interested too.
Bhagvan k ghar derr hai, undher nahi, so neki
kar dariya main daal... :-)